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Compassionate Baby Loss Counselling & Support

Compassionate online baby loss counselling for parents, partners, and whānau across New Zealand. Support for miscarriage, stillbirth, neonatal loss, TFMR, fertility grief, and pregnancy after loss.

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How I Can Support You

You Don't Have to Face Baby Loss Alone

If you've found your way here, you don't have to carry this alone. Whether your loss is recent or many years ago, this is a calm, compassionate space where your grief is welcome, your baby is remembered, and your story is honoured.

Through gentle baby loss counselling, you'll be supported at your own pace, with care that respects your experiences, values, and the unique journey of your family.

You Will Be Heard

A calm, non-judgemental space where your story, emotions, and experience are welcomed with compassion.

Your Grief Is Unique

There is no right or wrong way to grieve, and no pressure to move forward before you feel ready.

Support at Your Pace

Gentle online counselling available across New Zealand for parents, partners, and whānau.

Meet Steph Whitehouse

Steph Whitehouse, baby loss counsellor in New Zealand
Steph Whitehouse, baby loss counsellor in New Zealand

Steph offers compassionate baby loss counselling shaped by professional training and lived understanding of grief and loss. Her approach is gentle, collaborative, and paced to your needs, creating a calm and supportive space where your story can be heard and honoured.

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Baby Loss Counselling for Every Journey

Miscarriage

Support for the emotional impact of miscarriage, including grief, shock, isolation, and the loss of hopes and expectations.

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How Counselling Supports Healing After Baby Loss

A Safe Space to Be Heard, Remember, and Heal

Baby loss counselling is not about forgetting or moving on. It's about having a compassionate space where your grief is welcomed, your baby's memory is honoured, and your journey is supported at your own pace.

Speak openly
without judgement

Process grief
at your own pace

Honour and remember
your baby

Navigate changes in
relationships and identity

Find support through
anniversaries and milestones

Find hope and steadiness
through uncertainty

Calm and welcoming counselling space for baby loss support

Care That Respects Who You Are

Your identity, whakapapa, values, spirituality, and worldview are welcomed and respected throughout counselling. Steph offers a culturally safe and mana-enhancing space for parents, partners, and whānau from all backgrounds, including Māori, Pasifika, multicultural, LGBTQIA+, faith-diverse, and blended families.

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